Setting boundaries can apply to many aspects of your life but specifically setting boundaries during this holiday season. Looking at what is going on in your life at this moment against the given agenda. There are bound to be things that worked for you last year that do not work for you this year. You are looking at the impending itinerary, shopping list, etc. and thinking this year I cant do X but mom or grandma or the inlaws or somebody will be angry if I don’t. This is where setting your boundaries comes in. Setting boundaries in essence is compromise but in your favor.